OK so I got 2 e mails today, from women that I would LIKE to respond to, unforunately I cannot because it asks me to purchase credits, is there a way to respond without having to pay? because when was recomended this site I was led to believe that there was a way to use it free (but I was told paying for the upgrade is a good idea) anyway my question is do we HAVE to pay or is it optional (like plentyoffish for example) because I was told it was optional

No you have to buy some credits if you want to write to each other, there is no other way.

You can sign up for free and brose the profiles but if you want to actually communicate with them you must purchase credits which allows you to use their email service. You do get a good deal since they agency translates the letters as part of the fee.Good Luck.

Cupid notes are free but there is no way around purchasing credits to have your emfs translated. If money is that much of a concern I feel maybe you would feel more comfortable with a lesser service such as the one you mentioned. This thing takes a lot of money and effort. If priority is to meet a woman here there shouldn't be concerns with money.